Thursday, June 6, 2013

THE HEALING/HEELING POWER OF PUPPIES


That inexhaustible, leaping, kissing, biting, havoc-wreaking, but always lovable, bundle of fur that is Wiley, came bounding down from his home in the Upper Peninsula this past week, to visit me.  Merely 3 months old, and only in my life for just a fraction of that time, he has managed to secure a place in a heart, that I was quite confident had already reached its full-capacity.   My heart has been quite happily occupied for the last 11 years by that incorrigible Copper Kitty, whom we rescued while vacationing in Port Sanilac, and for the last 8 years by the two tiny bundles of black fur, Teddy and Scarlett that God blessed us with after our beloved Cairn Terrier Sophie, passed away.  Then, as if it wasn't crowded enough already in there, the neighbor's two cats who absolutely refuse to accept that they do not reside at my house, have also managed to garner more than their fair share of  my heart's affection... not to mention the lion's share of Copper's cat food, as well.  I simply had no intention of falling in love with any other animal and was determined to only "like" Wiley, Olivia and Mike's new Silver Lab puppy...and even "liking" was to be kept strictly from long distance. Wiley however, with blatant disregard for the "no vacancy" sign I had posted, would tolerate nothing less than first class accommodations in the "make room in your heart" department and with complete and unabashed confidence, singlehandedly (or pawedly, as the case may be) found himself a place within it, despite my strongest efforts. He utilized some interesting tactics, I have to admit.  While Scarlett and Teddy won me over with their gentle manners and playful antics, Wiley went with the "tail wagging with such unbridled joy that it knocks every single item off your coffee table" style approach, accompanied by mischief making of such epic proportions, that simply the act of behaving himself weakens any resolve not to love him, by virtue of sheer gratitude alone. Most effective of all his tactics however, is Wiley's strategy of rising very early in the morning and waking his first victim, so that, while they are half-asleep and still not able to think coherently, they foolishly leave their bare feet exposed, allowing Wiley to seize the chance to sink his incredibly, sharp puppy teeth into the very tender area of their Achilles heel.  This is followed immediately, by said humans attempting to pry Wiley's teeth from off of their tender flesh, while simultaneously screaming, "No bite! No bite!" to no avail; thus affording Wiley the opportunity to latch onto ones fingers, which unbelievably, one has, in desperation, placed inside his mouth! The beauty of this tactic is that when Wiley chooses a different victim the next morning, the first recipient of Wiley's morning greeting is so grateful to him for doing so, that an unbreakable bond is immediately forged.


This week when Wiley bounded into my house, shiny sharp teeth exposed and waiting to bite, it was just what the doctor ordered. Puppies are demanding little creatures and there is no time for grieving, unless you have a very strong Achilles heel.  Then of course, there is that one other "extra" benefit he provides; it being that every now and then, when Wiley is a little sleepy himself, he is amenable to a bit of affection....and as everyone knows, very few things in life help heal a heart faster than the love of two tiny bundles of black fur, an incorrigible cat, the two cats who live across the street from you but who refuse to accept that arrangement, along with the affection of a puppy, like Wiley.  Blessings ~ Amycita ~     








Wednesday, May 29, 2013

For My Brother

Grief, as necessary to life as joy, has settled upon me now.  In the days leading up to my brother's passing this past Monday, the first threads of it began to weave its way around my heart, but it wasn't until the day following his death, that it actually began to blanket me.  It is as familiar to me as an old friend, for I have known this feeling many times before.  It stands waiting, like an unexpected guest knocking upon the door of my heart, until with resignation I open myself up to let grief in.
I take note of the baggage it carries with it, so indicative of the length of time it will be visiting me.  We will be unpacking the contents of that baggage together, one item at a time, but I know over the days its weight will become lighter.  A bit of anxiety causes my heart to race for I know this period will be painful, yet necessary.  Its first days with me will be the hardest, of course, but the jagged edges of pain will begin to soften with the passage of time.  One day though, there will be a morning upon which I will wake up thinking about some ordinary aspect of life, instead of about the brother I loved and miss. Then, I will watch as grief picks up its empty suitcase and quietly begins to walk away, almost unnoticed, as it closes the door of my heart behind it, until the next time we meet again.
I love you Bill; you will remain in my heart until we are together, once more. Until that time though, safe journey; don't tarry if you should hear us crying.  It is just the sounds of those who loved you... unpacking their bags of grief.  ~ Amycita~

Wednesday, April 17, 2013

FLAT STANLEY VISITS AUNT AMY, OR WOULD YOU ENTRUST YOUR CHILD'S CLASS PROJECT TO THIS WOMAN?

Dear Anna and Classmates,
Thank you so much for choosing us to be one of the host families for your Flat Stanley Project.  I was so happy and surprised when he arrived in the mail!  Since I like to read so much, I was already familiar with Flat Stanley's books. I always liked his stories, because even though he was flattened like a pancake when a bulletin board fell on him one night, he still made the best of things and managed to lead a very exciting life!  After all, who else do you know who gets to go on a vacation to California, by being mailed there in an envelope?  He was able to go on even more adventures when you mailed him to my house and I think he really enjoyed them, as well!  (Well, maybe with the exception of our visit to see the goats, at Frontier Town!)  Thank you again, for letting us be part of the fun!
Lots of Love,
Anna's Aunt Amy
XOXOXOXO
     
                                              FLAT  STANLEY'S ADVENTURES WITH MY FAMILY
                                                        Dedicated to Anna and all her classmates
                                                With special love and thanks to my daughter, Jamie  

     
I was so surprised when Flat Stanley first arrived at our house in Washington Township.  We live right on the borderline between Washington Township and Romeo, Michigan. I usually just say I live in Romeo, instead of Washington Township, because more people know where Romeo is. People often visit Romeo because it is famous for all the apple orchards we have, and also for the "Peach Festival" that the village hosts, during the fall.  Here is a picture of Flat Stanley popping out of my mailbox!

SURPRISE!
I was very excited to take Flat Stanley around town to see some sights. Flat Stanley was hoping to drive, but I couldn't let him because his feet didn't reach the gas pedal.  Instead, I had him sit on the passenger seat and, of course, I had him put on his seat belt so that he would be safe!

TOO SHORT TO DRIVE!
ALWAYS WEAR A SEAT BELT!



THE CIVIL WAR MONUMENT















The first place I took him to visit was the historic cemetery in Romeo.  It has a large monument in it, which lists the soldiers from the area who died during the civil war. I showed him all the names engraved on the sides of the monument, and told him that some parents lost more than one son during that war. Thinking how hard that must have been for those families might have made him feel a little sad, because he was very quiet after I had finished.  I can't be sure though, because, between you and me, Flat Stanley really isn't much of a talker.

To cheer him up a bit, I let him pretend he was being shot out of a civil war cannon.  It is a good thing that it was still cold outside though, because in the summer wasps like to live inside it, and he could have gotten stung by one!

FLAT STANLEY PRETENDING TO BE SHOT OUT OF A CANNON!

Next, I took Flat Stanley to Frontier Town.  Frontier Town is a place with some interesting stores, including an old-fashioned general store where you can buy penny candy.  It also has goats in the back of the property, and you can buy goat food, to feed them with.  I guess I should have purchased some of that food, because after I taped Flat Stanley to the post outside the pen and stepped back to take a picture of him, one of those rascally goats stuck his head through the fence and started eating him!!! (Goats really like to eat paper, I discovered!)  I yelled very loud at him to put Flat Stanley down, but goats are NOT very good listeners.  I was extremely sad even though I knew he was only made of paper. I think it was because when you read a good book the characters almost seem to come alive...and that was how Flat Stanley was beginning to feel to me!
Luckily, since Flat Stanley WAS a character out of a book and WAS NOT a real, live, little boy, I was able to make another one!
FLAT STANLEY AND THAT RASCALLY GOAT!

















As soon as I was finished, I took him to the library in town.  I knew he would want to know all about his family, so guess which book I took out for him to read?
THE "NEW" FLAT STANLEY
The next day Flat Stanley and I met my daughter Jamie, at National Coney Island.  She was traveling to California the following day and she wanted to take him with her...this time IN AN AIRPLANE! I think he really liked having the window seat.



HE ORDERED A FLAT-BREAD SANDWICH!
BETTER THAN AN ENVELOPE!


While he was in California he attended a conference with some students Jamie was escorting, who were members of a group called Phi Theta Kappa. They are students who get really good grades at college, so Stan liked to hang around with them. Stan knows how important it is to do well at school!

STAN AND JAMIE
FLAT STANLEY WITH HIS SMART FRIENDS!
After the conference was finished, Stan took in some of the sights with Jamie.  He got to see the Golden Gate Bridge and a few other places, when Jamie met up with her cousin Matt, who lives in California.
THE GOLDEN GATE BRIDGE

MATT, JAMIE AND STAN

This picture though, is my favorite one of all.  I think it looks like Flat Stanley is a GIANT and he is stepping on the tiny humans who are walking on the beach!  It made me laugh very hard when I saw it!
LOOK OUT BELOW!!!
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Flat Stanley had another nice flight on his way back and even had a layover in Denver, Colorado!
When Flat Stanley came back home he really wanted to attend Macomb Community College, like his friends from the conference did. Jamie explained that he wasn't old enough yet, but she let him pretend to get his ID picture taken, so that he wouldn't feel too disappointed.  
FLAT STANLEY AT COLLEGE!
After that, Jamie returned Flat Stanley to me for one last adventure.  I work at a preschool and we were having an art show, so I let Flat Stanley dress up like an artist, when he visited.  He posed with some artwork, which two of my daughters drew when they were back in high school.  After that he posed with one of the projects that our preschoolers made.  He looks great, don't you think?  I think he might become a famous artist when he grows up!
ART BY GINA AND JAMIE!

FLAT STANLEY "THE ARTIST"

Well, I had a few more pictures of Flat Stanley, but unfortunately, I am having trouble downloading them.  In any case, I think you can tell that we had a great time together, and I certainly am glad that he came to our house to visit!  Thank you again, boys and girls...and I love you, Anna! 

I received this thank you letter in the mail today...I love it!